In this article, i’m going to discuss how YOU can make sure to get the most out of a psychic reading. What is a good reading? What to ask a psychic? How to avoid common mistakes? In short: How to stop wasting your money & get the most bang for your buck!
Can Psychics really foretell my future?
This question must have crossed your mind while preparing for a visit to your chosen psychic medium or guide. While it is a fact that psychics are also human and some of them are more gifted than the others, whether you have a good reading or not, can also depend on you. It is for you to get the most out of the reading and you can do so by preparing beforehand for the reading. Believe it or not, there are things you can do to get the most out of your reading.
In fact, if you ask people who seek out readers, they will tell you that they have had great psychic readings at times and then there were readings that were just average, and both qualities from the same psychic. So what went wrong? At the first instance, it is easy to blame the psychic – may be the psychic was having an off-day, but digging a little deeper might reveal that the problem was elsewhere. The problem was with the clients. It was their attitude and close mindedness that led to a poor reading. So what is to be done to ensure a great reading? What questions can you ask and how do you frame them for a successful reading? Can a psychic really predict all that is going to happen to you or are there limitations to their powers? Read on to find out.
Real seeker of spiritual guidance or a mere debunker?
There is no limit to what you can ask the psychic within your time slot, but for all these questions to be addressed properly you have to be in the right frame of mind. You might go to a reading, a little sceptical of the reading but it is wise to be an open sceptic, as there are mysteries of the universe that are beyond our understanding. Keeping an open mind during a reading will help the psychic reader connect with you better and who knows you might be pleasantly surprised by what the reading reveals to you.
If all you want to do is question the legitimacy of the psychic, then it is for sure that the reading will not go well. All through the reading you will be mistrustful and suspicious, and the psychic will find it almost impossible to link and share with you any intuitive news. When you participate in a reading while you have the right to be cautious, also keep an open mind. That way you will not be wasting anyone’s time and everyone will come away a winner!
Traits of a Good Reading
Before going to a psychic reading, you should spend some time thinking about what you want to take away from the reading. Chances are that you will have a fantastic reading if you are a willing participant with ready questions for the psychic. You should have some basic questions that you would prefer the psychic to concentrate more on. You will also have to be prepared to give honest and not cagey answers. If you’re not willing to tell the truth, you will not get anything out of the reading.
What to Ask and What to Avoid
You will have a good psychic reading only if you have given substantial thought to the questions you want to ask. It is best to ask your psychic questions in a way that will give you the clearest answers. Always pose the questions to the psychic in the manner such that the answer will give you clarity and some sense of direction about your situation. Whatever the information you are seeking, whether it be about love and relationship, career moves, spiritual growth or any other aspect of your life, it is best if you ask your questions in a way that suggests that you are in control of your life.
Good Questions That Yield the Maximum Information
So what makes good questions? The finest questions are precise and open ended. Psychics will not advise you on what you should do but will show you the possible routes that you can take and offer guidance and spiritual insight regarding your possible paths. So rather than asking, “Should I leave my partner?” a better question would be “Show me the repercussions of leaving my partner”. Similarly, rather than asking “shall I leave my job?” you can try rephrasing and asking “what is there in store for me if I leave my present job?” Open ended questions are a good way to elicit a good response.
What Topics to Avoid
You must also keep in mind that you should never replace psychic reading with what your doctors have told you regarding potential health problems and treatment, or what your lawyers have advised you, or what investment professionals have advised you regarding your investment policies. If you want to treat the psychic readings as getting a second opinion after the advice of a traditional consultant has already been obtained, especially in the case of health, legal or monetary matters, then that is of course a good idea. You should ALWAYS base important decisions on more than a psychic reading. What happens if he or she reads you wrong ? Psychics are just humans with a special gift. They’re not perfect. They are not gods! Another type of question to avoid is the type where the answer is the yes / no type. You might not be prepared to hear the answer!
Remember, the Psychic Is Not There to Judge You
Please remember that you are free to ask any question regarding your life and the possible route you want to take or the probable pitfalls that you want to avoid. It is not the psychic’s job to judge you or your lifestyle. Be open and honest about your questions and answers and the psychic will try and help you as much as the person can.
In the end, please remember that it is your mentality, demeanour, attitude, hopes and expectations that can make a reading forgettable, mediocre or outstanding. Proper psychic readings can give you a strong understanding of the way your life is headed, can provide you with comfort and bring back faith and hope to your life. So it is up to you to take the necessary steps to make the most of these benefits. Now that you are aware, let us hope that you have an awesome reading. After all you hold the key to it!
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